FOUR THINGS I WISH I WAS TOLD DURING PREMARITAL COUNSELLING

Don’t get me wrong. Premarital counselling is critical in preparing a couple for marriage. There are, however, some things I found out about marriage that I wished I had known way before I dived in. Here they are: 1. Couples Do Not Gel Immediately This verse from Genesis, quoted at many weddings, often gives couples … Read more FOUR THINGS I WISH I WAS TOLD DURING PREMARITAL COUNSELLING

LADIES – DO YOU KNOW HOW TO LOVE?

A few days ago, the term ‘wife material’ got me thinking – how many women know what to expect before jumping into marriage? Do we truly grasp what it means to love? Ladies – I know you have an idea of what love is. Let us, however, take a quick look at the biblical view … Read more LADIES – DO YOU KNOW HOW TO LOVE?

SINGLES – LET’S TALK ABOUT THE REALITIES OF MARRIAGE

The life of a single is so exciting and spontaneous. As one gets older, however, people begin to insist that the single person gets married, starts a family, secures a dream job, etc. As a result, singles have been bombarded with loads of untruths about marriage and relationships. Below is a quick look at a … Read more SINGLES – LET’S TALK ABOUT THE REALITIES OF MARRIAGE

3 CUNNING LITTLE MOLES THAT RUIN MARRIAGES

A thriving marriage is one that is to be envied. Marriages, however, face challenges from within and without. Today’s short reflection will focus on three moles that quickly find their way into marriages, but are very hard to recognize. Enjoy the read! 1. Soul Ties Did you know that you are linked to everyone with … Read more 3 CUNNING LITTLE MOLES THAT RUIN MARRIAGES

MORE MARRIAGE MYTHS? NOT AGAIN!

Following last week’s post on marriage myths, you must be thinking there cannot possibly be more myths out there. Don’t worry; there are just a few more to look at. 1. Physical intimacy happens all the time Most people who get married look forward to getting physically intimate all the time, any time they feel … Read more MORE MARRIAGE MYTHS? NOT AGAIN!

REALITY CHECK – A LOOK AT MARRIAGE MYTHS

Marriage is a beautiful thing that God created for men and women to enjoy. There is lots of ignorance surrounding our understanding of marriage, hence my decision to do a few posts on the topic. I recently had a chat with a good friend who has been married a bit longer than I have, and … Read more REALITY CHECK – A LOOK AT MARRIAGE MYTHS

WHY ISN’T MY MARRIAGE WORKING THE WAY I WANT IT TO?

Marriage is one thing that baffles many people. The complexities of how two completely different individuals come together to form a family unit is a mystery even for those already married. Sadly, many marriages are collapsing, and several people want out. If your marriage is going through a bumpy patch, it may be a good … Read more WHY ISN’T MY MARRIAGE WORKING THE WAY I WANT IT TO?

I WANT TO GET MARRIED NOW!

LORD, I WANT TO GET MARRIED NOW!   Remember those fairy tales of long ago? Where the handsome prince would fall in love with the beautiful princess and ask for her hand in marriage? That is the dream of every young woman, to marry the perfect person. The question is what happens when you get … Read more I WANT TO GET MARRIED NOW!