3 Crucial Things Courting Couples Must Agree On

What three things should every couple strive to agree on? Are you courting someone with the hope of getting married in the near future? Could you be going through the ‘serious’ phase where there is no turning back, the phase where you are discussing things that lead up to a lifetime commitment? What, then, are … Read more 3 Crucial Things Courting Couples Must Agree On

Feeling Unloved on Valentine’s Day? Three Reasons Why You Shouldn’t!

Three reasons why the pressure of Valentine’s should not get to you!  Every year, thousands of people around the world get depressed on the 14th of February. The reason? Because the pressure to feel ‘loved’ and ‘appreciated’ on Valentine’s Day is unbearable! As much as most of us enjoy the thrill and splashes of red … Read more Feeling Unloved on Valentine’s Day? Three Reasons Why You Shouldn’t!

‘Man-Made’ Tips for the Ladies

A few tips for my fellow ladies…. It is easy to imagine that marriages flow without much effort. The opposite is true, as there are some things you may do to your partner that will cause rifts and discomfort within the relationship.  This post is dedicated to all the fair ladies and has a few … Read more ‘Man-Made’ Tips for the Ladies

Do I Need God in My Relationships?

Relationships are all about love, trust, and commitment, right? Is there, therefore, any need for God in our relationships? Why involve him when everything seems to be going so well? Selfishness Selfishness is a disease that has infected humanity, with each person looking to fulfill his or her own demands at the expense of another … Read more Do I Need God in My Relationships?

The Dating Dilemma

Falling in love is so exciting! Don’t you feel like spending every waking minute with this person you have fallen for?  For a young Christian, though, there are boundaries in dating to think about. Below I share a few tips to help you maintain sexual purity before marriage. Keep it public, yet private. I completely … Read more The Dating Dilemma

Christians, How Should We Handle Our Differences?

The last few days have quite uncomfortable for many people in Kenya. Tribal differences have come to the fore, and suddenly people are losing friends and breaking relationships because they are not able to see eye to eye. As a Christian, how am I supposed to handle myself in the wake of tribal differences? This … Read more Christians, How Should We Handle Our Differences?

So Why Does Everyone Want To Get Married?

I asked myself this question yesterday, as I thought about the many young people who are longing to find that perfect partner and settle down.  Is there something on the other side of singlehood that makes everyone want to jump over to the other side? Let’s find out! Companionship Most married couples will tell you … Read more So Why Does Everyone Want To Get Married?

LOOKING FOR THE ‘RIGHT’ ONE? 4 QUICK TIPS TO HELP YOU CHOOSE!

The biggest question on the minds of many young singles is – how do I know this is the right person for me to marry? How do I know that things will work out between us? If I don’t marry this person, will I regret my decision forever?   Here are a few tips that … Read more LOOKING FOR THE ‘RIGHT’ ONE? 4 QUICK TIPS TO HELP YOU CHOOSE!

KEEPING YOUR MARRIAGE ‘GRASS’ GREEN – FOUR GREAT TIPS

Have you ever looked at another married couple and said to yourself, “Why can’t my marriage be as perfect at theirs?” The adage that goes, “the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence” can most certainly be applied to marriages. Sincerely speaking, there are many times I have been guilty of … Read more KEEPING YOUR MARRIAGE ‘GRASS’ GREEN – FOUR GREAT TIPS

LADIES – DO YOU KNOW HOW TO LOVE?

A few days ago, the term ‘wife material’ got me thinking – how many women know what to expect before jumping into marriage? Do we truly grasp what it means to love? Ladies – I know you have an idea of what love is. Let us, however, take a quick look at the biblical view … Read more LADIES – DO YOU KNOW HOW TO LOVE?